nov_rdhunt
07-07-2009, 02:17 PM
Hi, I'm found out that a guy I fancy is quite fond of me too, according to a friend. As he seems very nervous around me, I decided to take the initiative and simply passed him my phone number casually without making much of a conversation.
I've never done this before and I'm very impatient. How long does it normally take for a guy to call if you give him a phone number?
When a guy would reply to your hints?
When a guy would reply to your hints really just depends on a lot of things. He probably will not call you the very next day.
Even if he has the time to he just wouldn't want to seem too desperate. I'd say 2-4 days if he's interested, but it could vary depending on the guy.
Waiting for him to call
That's gutsy? I don't think many women as well as men would had the nerve. You must be a confident lady in order to do that. But you must also, with that kind of guts, be equal parts thick skinned.
Now this is literally 50-50. Either he will call, or he won't. Since you already knew the guy was very nervous, maybe this wasn't a bad idea. What will be bad is if you cease your normal routine and sit around waiting for him to call. Keep busy.
Is the type of man you want to date?
Bottom line: I hope he calls, because you've made it easy for him. I would give it at least one week tops. If he's really interested, he'll call sooner than that. Remember he is very nervous, so it may take him longer, and you can't call him.
So just wait. If he doesn't call, I would forget him. If a man is so nervous that he can't even call after a number is handed to him, you have to ask yourself if that is the type of man you want to date.
I've never done this before and I'm very impatient. How long does it normally take for a guy to call if you give him a phone number?
When a guy would reply to your hints?
When a guy would reply to your hints really just depends on a lot of things. He probably will not call you the very next day.
Even if he has the time to he just wouldn't want to seem too desperate. I'd say 2-4 days if he's interested, but it could vary depending on the guy.
Waiting for him to call
That's gutsy? I don't think many women as well as men would had the nerve. You must be a confident lady in order to do that. But you must also, with that kind of guts, be equal parts thick skinned.
Now this is literally 50-50. Either he will call, or he won't. Since you already knew the guy was very nervous, maybe this wasn't a bad idea. What will be bad is if you cease your normal routine and sit around waiting for him to call. Keep busy.
Is the type of man you want to date?
Bottom line: I hope he calls, because you've made it easy for him. I would give it at least one week tops. If he's really interested, he'll call sooner than that. Remember he is very nervous, so it may take him longer, and you can't call him.
So just wait. If he doesn't call, I would forget him. If a man is so nervous that he can't even call after a number is handed to him, you have to ask yourself if that is the type of man you want to date.